What Do You Think?

 I create these blog posts as a way of recording memories for Jim and me;  they become a Blog2Print book at the end of the year.  I do have at times as many as 20 readers but only one or two people ever comment.  So this time, if you are reading this post, please give us some advice in the comments or send me an email.  

As you all probably know we are trying to make a decision about getting on the list for senior housing, a continued care community in our area.    In the last week, we have talked to two younger friends who are concerned about their elderly parents having to pack up and sell a house.  Good for us!  We have done that and done that well.  Our house sold easily and our move went well.  We like our apartment and are relieved not to have the challenges of home ownership any more.  We are very comfortable here and that makes it more difficult to make a change.

So is it time to make the next big step?  It is so much easier not to even think about another move.  But it won't get any easier as we age to adjust to a new way of life.  Is this going to be our next big adventure?  And we have to do it while we are still "independent" or the authorities at the community will not accept us. 

 I would enjoy having a variety of good food available without my having to plan for it or prepare it. Apparently you don't always have to join others in the dining room.  Take-out or ordering at the cafe is an option.   It would be good to have the security of personnel available there if we had a medical emergency or a fall.  There is a cleaning service that is required.  We saw two apartments that were spacious and lovely. 

I'm sure there are lots of good people to meet.  We're probably not very interested in exercise classes or other clubs but who knows?  We are already singing with a group that meets at the community twice a month.  Some programs might be of interest.   (Our grandchildren have given dance programs there.)  A bus provides transportation to our church on Sunday mornings.  There are options for trips to local grocery stores. 

There are big financial decisions to make with various options for buying into the community.  Even if we put down a minimal deposit and get on the list, it could be quite a while until a unit we would like would be available.  

At this point, the way is not clear and the decision is not easy.  Any advice would be welcome!